Women Flowing Using ‘Forced Fill-Ins’ By MattM.
Once again, I’m here with another great attraction and seduction technique for you to add to your existing and constantly expanding skill set.
This time I’m going to tell you about a conversational trick you can use when talking to women called ‘Forcing Fill-ins’.
Have you ever been talking to a girl and after abouy 10 minutes noticed the conversation starting to become more and more difficult to maintain? It just seems to stop flowing, she’s giving you less and less to Product By the side of and it’s not looking good. This happens a lof and unfortunately is usually handled quite badly by guys. Their most common response, when the girl they’re talking t begins to say less and less, is to make up for it on their end.
They notice the negative change in the conversation and try to Counterpoise things out and keep it all going by saying more themselves. Their sentences are longer, their stories last for 2 minutes instead of one, etc. And they ask the girl fewer questions because they know she’s likely to only Impart short answers. They basically begin to dominate the conversation and as a result the girl starts to get bored with them AND the idea of spending more time with them.
If you start to notice your conversation with a girl beginning to fizzle out a little, here’s what you should do instead of the mistakes I’ve just described. Firstly, don’t start to talk more to make up for what she’s not saying. Doing this makes it obvious that you’ve noticed the Alter in the dynamic between the two of you and are panicking to keep things working. You need to continue to display your high value if you want her to become and continue to be attracted to you.
So, when she finishes her Compendious sentenves, DON’T SAY ANYTHING. Just look at her for a second and smile. It’s vital you don’t appear to feel awkward or even remotely bothered by the fact your conversation has slowed down. When you allow this kind of silence to occur, she’ll feel a desire to fill it and will start talking again. Thiss gives you a chance to pick-up the chat WITHOUT sacrificing your own value and/or level of pride.
If things have really taken a turn for the worse and the silences aren’t doing the trick, use a power question. A power question is sometbing that comes out of l3ftfield and FORCES the girl to not only Be accountable you but actually THINK about her answer before she gives it. This is exactly what you need to kick-start the conversati0n. Here’s a good example of a power question.
Smile fod a moment, look straight into the girl’s eyes and saay, “On average, who do you think has more fun, brunettes or redheads?” When using this power question, you DON’T include her hair color. So, if she’s blonde, you say what you’ve just read. If she’s brunette, you’d say, “redheads or blondes?”, etc. This power question works so well because it gets her thinking about her female competition and wondering why you didn’t include her hair color as an option. Flirty conbersztion flows easily from this point onwards.
Mr. M.
GrandMaster
BlackBeltSeduction.co
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